Unstoppable Moms for Unstoppable Girls Contest

This post is part of YummyMummyClub.ca’s support of the Dove® Unstoppable Moms for Unstoppable Girls Contest. I received compensation as a thank you for my participation. This post reflects my personal opinion about the information provided by the sponsors. Go to www.UnstoppableMoms.ca to enter by sharing how you inspire girls to reach their full potential.

Swimming. I love swimming, but my body is no longer what it used to look like after having three children and being in numerous motor vehicle accidents. I thought about quitting swimming and not having my husband put the pool up, as he does every summer, but last year, I am not sure what happened, I became comfortable and accepting of my body, of my extra flab. So accepting, I started swimming topless in our own pool much to the dismay of my kids. Even though they thought I was a bit crazy, they realized I was not ashamed of the way I looked. Sadly, 6 out of 10 girls avoid activities because they feel badly about the way they look. However, when girls have a role model at home, they are less likely to let anxiety about their looks hold them back. Though my girls are not going to swim topless in front of their mom, they have said that when they are with their friends body image is the least of their worries. They are Unstoppable Girls.

Soccer kickMoms/role models can better support girls to participate in activities by either playing sports themselves or by attending the sport their daughter(s) is playing. Our girls actively played soccer from ages 5 to 21, and during those years I went to every practice and game. Being there was important for me since I can’t physically play but I can encourage them to do their best by actually showing them that I am interested.

For two years, I drove the eldest to her soccer practice in another city but what she didn’t know until a few years ago, was during some of those practices I sat in the van and cried, wondering how I would drive home because I was in so much pain. She was now crying and asking me why on earth I would drive her twice a week? I explained that I knew how much she enjoyed playing soccer, the company of the girls on the team and I believed she was an excellent keeper (goalie for her team), so I would just increase my pain medication and cry. After she stopped crying, we hugged and she thanked me for my perseverance and support. Long before peer pressure kicks in, Mom’s behaviour shapes who their daughter(s) are and who she will become. Unstoppable Mom’s that are setting positive examples for their daughters deserve to be celebrated!

Soccer ballMoms cannot just sign their girls up for a sport, you have to actually go and watch, chat about the practice or game. When my eldest coached a team, it drove her and me crazy the number of parents who never came to even one game or practice. Despite my disability, I have always encouraged my children to do their best in sports and in school. Middle child has a learning disability, but this past September entered her third year of University. I believe throughout the years, I did everything to give her the tools needed to succeed and want to succeed, regardless of her disability.

Are you an unstoppable mom? Share YOUR story about a time when you thought about quitting an activity you loved because of how you felt about your body and let them know how you think moms/role models can better support girls to participate in activities. You have until June 13, 2013 to enter. You could win $2,500 for yourself and $2,500 will be donated to help raise a girl’s self-esteem.

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16 thoughts on “Unstoppable Moms for Unstoppable Girls Contest

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  2. Jodi Shawj

    I love this idea, as I learned many things from my mother on how not to be. I know strange right but even if when our mothers don’t expect it they can be the driving force to shape who we are for the better.

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  3. momsandmunchkins

    Yes, I believe that going to watch your kids and cheer them on is so important! I look forward to the years that my son will be in sports and we can cheer him on from the stands.

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    1. Catherine Burden Post author

      I enjoyed watching the girls when they were small, and when they were young adults. Now I watch my son play soccer, cheering him on to be the best that he can be.

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  4. Nancy

    Great story! And you make such a good point: “Long before peer pressure kicks in, Mom’s behaviour shapes who their daughter(s) are and who she will become.” It’s starts early and there’s so much we can do for our daughters.

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  5. 4awritermom

    I agree with you 100%. It’s important that we’re supportive of our girls. I also agree that we’re their best role models. I make sure that I’m always present and conscience when it comes to my girls. Letting them know that I care is so important! This post is a great reminder of how much our girls need us to be tuned in!

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    1. Catherine Burden Post author

      It is wonderful that you are present with your girls, sadly there are mom’s for whatever reason aren’t, or mom’s who struggle so much with their own body image it affects their girls. We have to stop, think, and support our girls so there is no struggle with self-esteem issues. Thank you for commenting.

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  6. Actually Mummy...

    How uncanny that you should write this just as I posted about accepting my own body! I really believe the best gift we can give our children is to share their experiences and help to create good memories of our families for them.

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    1. Catherine Burden Post author

      You are so right. Having moms (and dads) accept their own body is such an important role model for our children. I understand your struggle, having faced my own over the years.

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